Traits Of A Mother Which Are Toxic For Her Child

Every child has heard utmost godly facts about a mother and her love towards her children.

Although, A mother’s extra care can sometimes turn into toxicity for her child,

We all have heard that anything exceeding its limit has negative outcomes. Similarly, A mother’s extra care or possessiveness can turn out to be toxic for her child.

There are some common particular traits of a mother which are just out of love and affection but can be truly toxic and hurtful for her child, leaving a scar on her child’s heart for life.

Most of them includes:

1. The “Dictator” Mother

This kind of mother is always wanting to control everything in its child’s life. She wants to control everything from top to bottom like what her child eats, where her child goes, what her child should do and what not. She surely wants it for her child’s good but sometimes it can be exhausting for her child and maybe in near future the child might also lose its capability to take its own life decisions or do anything on its own. This kind of Parenting of a Mother can make her own child much more dependent than needed and the child might not grow much mature as it should according to its age.

2. The “Nosy” Mother

This kind of mother won’t let her child have its own life. She, out of care, would want to go through everything of her child’s life, she’s way too intruding and leaves no privacy for the child. She always wants to be a part in everything of her child’s life,

She constantly keeps checking their bags, almirahs and phones. This parenting trait of a mother might develop territorial insecurities and depriving the feeling of belongingness in her child’s life. The child in the near future might start lying or hiding often due to so much interruption by her mother.

3. The “Heedless” Mother

This kind of mother is just neglecting her child’s needs and wants. She is so engrossed in her own work and priorities that she neglects her child way too much that after a point the child starts feeling abandoned or not loved by her mother.

This kind of mother usually leaves her child to grow with a nanny, at a point the child is more attached to its nanny than the mother herself. The mother surely loves her child but she never gets a way out to express her love to them.

4. The “Always expecting more” Mother

This Mother is always expecting unrealistic things from her child, even when she knows that there is no such thing possible, she still expects that from her child. She is never satisfied with her child\’s success because she has endless expectations from her child.

At one point, the child stops sharing its success and stops putting much effort because it realises that its mother will never be satisfied.

5. The “Ferocious” Mother

This Mother trait is way too toxic for her child. This mother is always aggressive towards her child, she is always angry and harsh. She takes out all the rage on her child, she is never happy but always scolding her child for one thing or another.

This kind of mother trait makes her child feel unloved and unwanted, the child after sometime starts questioning its existence and can also develop self-hatred due to constant scolding from its mother.

6. The “Narcissist” Mother

This mother is way too self-obsessed and always prioritises her own things before its child’s. She always wants her things to be done before anything. She presents herself as the best mother to others but in reality, none of it is true. This kind of narcissist traits which mothers acquire make them want everything to be done perfectly and as they want irrespective of her child’s needs and wants.

7. The “Pampered” Mother

This kind of mother always wants herself to be pampered and loved more than she wants to love or pamper her child, she wants her child to treat her like a baby and agree to everything she says. She barely does anything for her child but her child surely does a lot for its mother. 

This parenting trait of a mother makes her child way too responsible even before its age. The mother might also end up ruining her child’s childhood.

8. The “Emotionally Unstable” Mother

This kind of mother tends to react differently to the same kind of situations in her child’s life. This may make the child never get the difference between what\’s right and wrong.

This kind of mother trait can disrupt the understanding of a child, she might scold the child on the wrong thing as well on the right thing due to her emotional instability.

9. The “Nazi” Mother

This mother trait wants her child to fear her in order to stop the child from doing anything wrong, due to which many necessary things which a mother should know are hidden from her child. The child sometimes develops fear and disagreement with the fact that its mother would ever understand anything.

Due to fear, children tend to hide things and specifically do the wrong things out of rage and frustration.

10. The “Violent” Mother

This mother trait usually believes that if she’ll beat her child, her child will never do wrong and never get into anything which shouldn\’t be done. Although, beating a child develops negative reinforcement towards her mother. Beating can even develop a psychological disorder or a trauma for the child which might disrupt its future events.